There are many times in my life where I feel overwhelmed, I am currently in one of those seasons. Much of it has to do with the changes going on around me. I have jokingly thought, I need to plan a midlife crises because that is how overwhelmed I have been feeling. It seems that change surrounds me on all fronts, and that the only stability I have comes from God.
It is hard not to be overwhelmed with a husband, three kids, two grandchildren, an elderly mom that needs care, siblings that are in their own crises, extended family problems, work during a busy time of the year while still in the midst of major changes, and trying to pursue my own interests and hobbies. Sometimes I am not in the midst of the crises or problem due to my own schedule but due to my love for these people I am impacted.
And while I would love to have a pity party about my life and how overwhelmed I feel, God also has overwhelmed me lately. The blessings that I have the opportunity to see while I am in the midst of my own trials is what fuels me to keep going and remind me of my advise to others to get outside themselves and serve so that their perspective on life will change.
So I thought I would share some overwhelming things that God has done lately in the lives of those around me.
I had a mom who was in need of formula. She had went to the WIC office but the computers were down and they could not print out the vouchers. The weather was coming in and the likelihood that the mother would be able to get back to the WIC office was slim. I left her in the emergency pantry but there was only one container of formula. It was liquid and might get her through a day and a half, but again the winter storms were coming and I was concerned she would be without formula for the baby. I was out of gift cards that I would typically use in this situation, so she went back to her apartment. A few minutes later a woman comes in and says "I haven't been able to give for a while, but I just felt that there was someone who needs something, you will know who it is for, and hands me cash. God always has perfect timing and had sent her when the mom had been told she couldn't get her vouchers.
About a month and a half ago, God answered prayers in another real way. I had a mother who was needing a new car seat. Her baby had been in the carrier, but he was growing quick and she wanted to get him a convertible car seat. We had been working on our Christmas wish lists and she decided that she wanted to put that on his list. She told me to add it, then went outside to check the mail. There was an almost new convertible car seat outside the door.
Around the same time another mom had been working on loosing weight and decided she would really like a bike. We received several new bikes donated from a local vendor. She started riding it back and forth to work and won the weight loss contest at her work. That donation not only improved her self esteem, helped her live a healthy life style and set a great example for her son, she saved money in her budget not needing gas.
A child needed a coat. A small local day care has a coat drive and calls to meet the need. Again, I didn't let them know the need. The director had already left a message on my phone when the mom asked. It was a God thing.
A mom needed help with her rent. I received a phone call that God had told this person that he needed to give to Havenwood a specific amount for a resident need. It covered her shortfall.
I learned about a movie "Girl Rising" that I really wanted the residents to see, tickets were on sale but the movie was the same week. I had decided whatever it took, I wanted as many of them to go as could. I received a phone call from a business man (and that who story is another overwhelming God thing) who wanted to do a random act of kindness. He paid for the tickets, a dedicated youth group came and watched the kids, and the moms, kids, and volunteers were fed!
Over the past two years we have remodeled our entire building inside. Fifteen apartments, a laundry room, a library, two large common areas, a play room, a playground. Now this one we asked for, but what we asked for and what we received was overwhelming!
At work I get to see regular blessings that just overwhelm me with God's generosity. I have a lot of these stories, where a parent or child says "Jackie I would sure like to have...." or "Jackie I need...." And God always overwhelms me with the tangible answer to that request. Yes, He uses people, churches and businesses to do it, but since I am not asking, and He is just providing, I know that it is Him.
Seeing these single parents succeed, overcoming barriers that most people would quit because, overwhelms me. I love when He answers so quickly after the mom presents the need, because this allows me to say without a doubt "It is a God thing. He is just showing you how much He loves you." I know some of the parents may not believe, but it is a seed planted and sometimes that is all I am called to do. So today I will praise God for overwhelming me.
Saturday, December 7, 2013
Thursday, October 24, 2013
The Same Sacrifice
Numbers Chapter 7:12-88
As I read from Numbers this morning, I admit (It could have been that it was three a.m.) to being a little critical of what I read, but I thought "Why am I reading these same words twelve times in ONE chapter, and then it is finished off with a sum of all those items. Had it been to Word's of Christ, some profound point, I could have understood, but this is what I read:
His offering was one silver charger, the weight whereof was an hundred and thirty shekels, one silver bowl of seventy shekels, after the shekel of the sanctuary; both of them full of fine flour mingled with oil for a meat offering:One golden spoon of ten shekels, full of incense: One young bullock, one ram, one lamb of the first year, for a burnt offering: One kid of the goats for a sin offering: And for a sacrifice of peace offerings, two oxen, five rams, five he goats, five lambs of the first year.
When it was time for me to start my day, I realized they all made the same sacrifice. Yes, it was a redundancy to spell it out person by person, day after day for twelve days and over 89 total verses. I don't believe God wastes words though, so what was the point He was trying to make. His point was that big or small, strong or weak, repentant or not, they all required the same sacrifice. It didn't matter the size, what they had done, who they were. They all required the same sacrifice.
I think sometimes today I forget this. I categorize sin, but the same sacrifice was required for all sin. I judge behaviors, but the same sacrifice was required to cover them all. I justify words and actions, but the same sacrifice was required to cover them all. Jesus Christ, the perfect sacrifice was required for every person regardless of race, gender, color, ability, orientation, beliefs, marital status, accepting of Him or not, repentant or not. The same sacrifice was made for us all.
Thursday, October 10, 2013
Awaken Us
Today I had the opportunity to sit in a local church that was distributing assistance to those in need. When I drove up the place was packed with cars. People were coming in and out, talking among themselves and eating and drinking refreshments that were provided. Honestly, it looked like most churches, most Sundays.
I selected a seat at the end of the hall holding a sleeping baby while the woman with me went to get her number. She was number 51. An hour later she learned that she made the cut because someone else did not qualify for help and was given an application. An hour later they had reached #11 in the screening process. I left at 10:30 to take care of other things and they had started handing out checks to #11s and screening #24.At 12:30 I received a message she had been helped.
On a side note to all the churches who do this type of ministry, a big opportunity was missed. While ministry may have happened as she went back for screening, the church really misses the opportunity of 50+ people sitting there in the hallway waiting to get assistance. A captive audience, with a definite need, and receptive to help. It was a great place to build relationship!
While I sat there visiting the young lady and playing with the baby, we shared conversation with an older man there and a gentleman with a familiar face that struck up a conversation as we tried to figure out the connection. I mean I was just there half the time and can tell you work history, current needs, marital issues, where they live, legal history, where they have attended church, and current connections of the two others who joined our conversation and I was not trying to gather information. The closest thing I saw to a ministry was when I sneezed and the gentleman said "God bless you." He jokingly told me that would be $5 for the blessing, but we laughed.
Anyway back to the point of my blog. As I sat there waiting and listening to the stories a comment was made that really woke me up. Please understand I have worked in public welfare for thirteen years - I know the poverty, abuse, drugs, legal issues and mental health issues. I deal with them daily. But three things were said by these old timers that really stuck me to the core. The comments were:
1) "I have been doing this (Seeking help) for seventeen years" - This man worked, had a home, a family. He had made some poor choices that hurt his employ-ability, felony charges. There were some things he could change to help his situation a little - he had more animals than he needed, but overall he was struggling to survive. He is healthy, his wife is ill. He works a minimum wage job because he is not longer eligible to work for the companies that pay more because of his background, and he can't make ends meet. For seventeen years he has lived this way. He was born and raised in this community - nature vs nurture we failed.
2) While looking at a dated picture of the church congregation no one was smiling. There was discussion of this, and I pointed out a little boy in the picture smiling. "They were the real Christians." Probing further: "They were too serious to smile, but were filled with the Spirit and knew how to make things happen. They are all gone now."
3) "Now Christian's are smiley, wave and Say "God bless you and I love you with the love of the Lord." and then walk on by not caring if you are in need. They don't want to help, they say things and don't follow though, and don't really seem to care. They say "Come by anytime." but when you do, they say "oh not right now", or pretend they are not at home."
So I left there, and pondered on the comments throughout the day. Until prayer meeting tonight - Awakening. We have been praying for an awakening in the Northwest Arkansas region. For THE CHURCH to awaken.
Ephesians 5:8-14 For you were once darkness, but now you are light in the Lord. Walk as children of light (for the fruit of the Spirit[b]is in all goodness, righteousness, and truth), finding out what is acceptable to the Lord. And have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather expose them. For it is shameful even to speak of those things which are done by them in secret. But all things that are exposed are made manifest by the light, for whatever makes manifest is light. Therefore He says:“Awake, you who sleep, Arise from the dead, And Christ will give you light.”
What I felt in my spirit is that just as I thought that 'I knew the issues' that people were facing, I hadn't even scratched the surface with my statistics and resources. The Church thinks we are awake, but we are sleeping.
It is like when you dream that you are awake and it is so real that you don't realize you are sleeping. That is how the church is, we think we see the things that are going on around us, that we are meeting the needs of the congregation and community, but we are not even scratching the surface. We must awaken. We must walk in the Light. We must expose the work of darkness. It is time for the Church to awaken to the things we have allowed to take place on our watch.
I selected a seat at the end of the hall holding a sleeping baby while the woman with me went to get her number. She was number 51. An hour later she learned that she made the cut because someone else did not qualify for help and was given an application. An hour later they had reached #11 in the screening process. I left at 10:30 to take care of other things and they had started handing out checks to #11s and screening #24.At 12:30 I received a message she had been helped.
On a side note to all the churches who do this type of ministry, a big opportunity was missed. While ministry may have happened as she went back for screening, the church really misses the opportunity of 50+ people sitting there in the hallway waiting to get assistance. A captive audience, with a definite need, and receptive to help. It was a great place to build relationship!
While I sat there visiting the young lady and playing with the baby, we shared conversation with an older man there and a gentleman with a familiar face that struck up a conversation as we tried to figure out the connection. I mean I was just there half the time and can tell you work history, current needs, marital issues, where they live, legal history, where they have attended church, and current connections of the two others who joined our conversation and I was not trying to gather information. The closest thing I saw to a ministry was when I sneezed and the gentleman said "God bless you." He jokingly told me that would be $5 for the blessing, but we laughed.
Anyway back to the point of my blog. As I sat there waiting and listening to the stories a comment was made that really woke me up. Please understand I have worked in public welfare for thirteen years - I know the poverty, abuse, drugs, legal issues and mental health issues. I deal with them daily. But three things were said by these old timers that really stuck me to the core. The comments were:
1) "I have been doing this (Seeking help) for seventeen years" - This man worked, had a home, a family. He had made some poor choices that hurt his employ-ability, felony charges. There were some things he could change to help his situation a little - he had more animals than he needed, but overall he was struggling to survive. He is healthy, his wife is ill. He works a minimum wage job because he is not longer eligible to work for the companies that pay more because of his background, and he can't make ends meet. For seventeen years he has lived this way. He was born and raised in this community - nature vs nurture we failed.
2) While looking at a dated picture of the church congregation no one was smiling. There was discussion of this, and I pointed out a little boy in the picture smiling. "They were the real Christians." Probing further: "They were too serious to smile, but were filled with the Spirit and knew how to make things happen. They are all gone now."
3) "Now Christian's are smiley, wave and Say "God bless you and I love you with the love of the Lord." and then walk on by not caring if you are in need. They don't want to help, they say things and don't follow though, and don't really seem to care. They say "Come by anytime." but when you do, they say "oh not right now", or pretend they are not at home."
So I left there, and pondered on the comments throughout the day. Until prayer meeting tonight - Awakening. We have been praying for an awakening in the Northwest Arkansas region. For THE CHURCH to awaken.
Ephesians 5:8-14 For you were once darkness, but now you are light in the Lord. Walk as children of light (for the fruit of the Spirit[b]is in all goodness, righteousness, and truth), finding out what is acceptable to the Lord. And have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather expose them. For it is shameful even to speak of those things which are done by them in secret. But all things that are exposed are made manifest by the light, for whatever makes manifest is light. Therefore He says:“Awake, you who sleep, Arise from the dead, And Christ will give you light.”
What I felt in my spirit is that just as I thought that 'I knew the issues' that people were facing, I hadn't even scratched the surface with my statistics and resources. The Church thinks we are awake, but we are sleeping.
It is like when you dream that you are awake and it is so real that you don't realize you are sleeping. That is how the church is, we think we see the things that are going on around us, that we are meeting the needs of the congregation and community, but we are not even scratching the surface. We must awaken. We must walk in the Light. We must expose the work of darkness. It is time for the Church to awaken to the things we have allowed to take place on our watch.
Saturday, October 5, 2013
God's perspective
I often pray "God, help me to see that person as you see them so I can love them with your love." I think that God gives me glimpses of others, but this week He gave me a true view from His Word. I have been reading in Exodus during my morning devotion and got a view of God's perspective.
Exodus 32:2-4 And Aaron said to them, “Break off the golden earrings which are in the ears of your wives, your sons, and your daughters, and bring them to me.” So all the people broke off the golden earrings which were in their ears, and brought them to Aaron. And he received the gold from their hand, and he fashioned it with an engraving tool, and made a molded calf.
MY view: Here is a guy that just eight chapters before was in the presence of God. (Exodus 24:9) Now he is a people pleaser. On Exodus 32:1 the Israelites come to him and say "Moses is probably not coming back, lets make a new god." There is not hesitation on the part of Aaron. There is not a spiritual "remember what God has done for us thus far. I was just with God." He just says, "Okay." He went from being the voice of God to Pharaoh to a person fashioning a false God. Not exactly the type of leader that I would want, pretty much this would be a "fallen pastor" in our day. He is wishy washy at best, and his faith is pretty weak.
Now we know Moses was gone for forty days and forty nights from Chapter 24 to Chapter 32 on the Mountain getting instruction from God. Forty days from the presence of God to the building of an idol, creating an alter for it, and planning a feast in its honor. And while Aaron is being swayed by the people, God knowing all, is still instructing Moses on Aaron's priesthood.
Exodus 28:1 Now take Aaron your brother, and his sons with him, from among the children of Israel, that he may minister to Me as priest, Aaron and Aaron’s sons: Nadab, Abihu, Eleazar, and Ithamar.
God's view: Here is a man that God has used to speak on His behalf to leaders as a mouthpiece for Moses. Aaron was one of the select few that God allowed to accompany Moses to worship (Exodus 24: 1 and 9). He was one of God's elect, hand selected as a priest unto the Lord. God knew what was going on at the base of the mountain, and yet still spent 40 days telling Moses how to prepare Aaron, his sons and the Tabernacle.
What I learned:
1) God does not just look at our present circumstances, but sees the future He designed for us
2) When the world would write us off, God is just getting started
3) God really can use anyone
4) When we are willing, God will allow us to fulfill His destiny
5) I need to stop judging, cause God wants to use people that I would write off.
Exodus 32:2-4 And Aaron said to them, “Break off the golden earrings which are in the ears of your wives, your sons, and your daughters, and bring them to me.” So all the people broke off the golden earrings which were in their ears, and brought them to Aaron. And he received the gold from their hand, and he fashioned it with an engraving tool, and made a molded calf.
MY view: Here is a guy that just eight chapters before was in the presence of God. (Exodus 24:9) Now he is a people pleaser. On Exodus 32:1 the Israelites come to him and say "Moses is probably not coming back, lets make a new god." There is not hesitation on the part of Aaron. There is not a spiritual "remember what God has done for us thus far. I was just with God." He just says, "Okay." He went from being the voice of God to Pharaoh to a person fashioning a false God. Not exactly the type of leader that I would want, pretty much this would be a "fallen pastor" in our day. He is wishy washy at best, and his faith is pretty weak.
Now we know Moses was gone for forty days and forty nights from Chapter 24 to Chapter 32 on the Mountain getting instruction from God. Forty days from the presence of God to the building of an idol, creating an alter for it, and planning a feast in its honor. And while Aaron is being swayed by the people, God knowing all, is still instructing Moses on Aaron's priesthood.
Exodus 28:1 Now take Aaron your brother, and his sons with him, from among the children of Israel, that he may minister to Me as priest, Aaron and Aaron’s sons: Nadab, Abihu, Eleazar, and Ithamar.
God's view: Here is a man that God has used to speak on His behalf to leaders as a mouthpiece for Moses. Aaron was one of the select few that God allowed to accompany Moses to worship (Exodus 24: 1 and 9). He was one of God's elect, hand selected as a priest unto the Lord. God knew what was going on at the base of the mountain, and yet still spent 40 days telling Moses how to prepare Aaron, his sons and the Tabernacle.
What I learned:
1) God does not just look at our present circumstances, but sees the future He designed for us
2) When the world would write us off, God is just getting started
3) God really can use anyone
4) When we are willing, God will allow us to fulfill His destiny
5) I need to stop judging, cause God wants to use people that I would write off.
Thursday, September 26, 2013
The Gate of Hell
As we broke out tonight into smaller prayer circles at Awakening, one of the pastors from another church shared a word and encouraged us in our need to be Steadfast. Strong activity in the spiritual realm often looks like nothing in the natural for a while.
As we were praying, God gave me a vision of the stationary gates of Hell, that the church is suppose to prevail against described in Matthew 16:18 New King James Version (NKJV) And I also say to you that you are Peter, and on this rock I will build My church, and the gates of Hades shall not prevail against it.
Then He showed me the Enemy, tearing down the walls of the church and building new walls expanding his territory and taking territory away from the Kingdom. The gates were still stationary, but he is building his fence in the territory of the Church, and we have stood by and let him. His territory is getting larger and larger and the Church has been standing idly by while he moved his fence one foot at time into Kingdom territory.
Tonight I felt a call to repentance for The Church while praying. I kept coming back to the verse found in 2 Chronicles 7:14-15 New King James Version (NKJV) If My people who are called by My name will humble themselves, and pray and seek My face, and turn from their wicked ways, then I will hear from heaven, and will forgive their sin and heal their land. Now My eyes will be open and My ears attentive to prayer made in this place.
We must repent. It is time that we tear down the walls he built and take that territory back. It is time that we repent for our compromises, lax behaviors, and complacency. It is time for the dry bones to rise and be the Army of Lord and take back what the enemy has stolen, plus some!
He Called the Church
Tonight at Awakening, a community prayer group focused on praying for the region weekly, and during corporate prayer, I was praying for those things that God placed on my heart. I have a burden for the lost, children who are abused, families, and marriages. And have experienced a stirring lately in the real issues in our community today - poverty and homelessness vs greed and selfish ambition, God's definition of marriage vs the homosexual agenda and premarital relations, child abuse neglect, and substance abuse.
After praying for these things, I turned my focus to the organizations and government entities that address these issues in the community. As I was listing out specific ones, I felt God say "STOP."
I said "God these are great organizations and they are meeting the needs, the government needs the Christian workers to be a light."
To which he responded, "I didn't call for organizations and the government to meet the needs. I called the Church to meet the needs."
James 1:27 Pure and undefiled religion before God and the Father is this: to visit orphans and widows in their trouble, and to keep oneself unspotted from the world.
Psalm 68:5-6 A father of the fatherless, a defender of widows, Is God in His holy habitation. God sets the solitary in families; He brings out those who are bound into prosperity;
Psalm 82:3 Defend the poor and fatherless; Do justice to the afflicted and needy.
Malachi 3:5 “So I will come to put you on trial. I will be quick to testify against sorcerers, adulterers and perjurers, against those who defraud laborers of their wages, who oppress the widows and the fatherless, and deprive the foreigners among you of justice, but do not fear me,” says the Lord Almighty.
Isaiah 42:6-7 “I, the Lord, have called You in righteousness, And will hold Your hand; I will keep You and give You as a covenant to the people, As a light to the Gentiles, To open blind eyes, To bring out prisoners from the prison, Those who sit in darkness from the prison house.
After praying for these things, I turned my focus to the organizations and government entities that address these issues in the community. As I was listing out specific ones, I felt God say "STOP."
I said "God these are great organizations and they are meeting the needs, the government needs the Christian workers to be a light."
To which he responded, "I didn't call for organizations and the government to meet the needs. I called the Church to meet the needs."
James 1:27 Pure and undefiled religion before God and the Father is this: to visit orphans and widows in their trouble, and to keep oneself unspotted from the world.
Psalm 68:5-6 A father of the fatherless, a defender of widows, Is God in His holy habitation. God sets the solitary in families; He brings out those who are bound into prosperity;
Psalm 82:3 Defend the poor and fatherless; Do justice to the afflicted and needy.
Malachi 3:5 “So I will come to put you on trial. I will be quick to testify against sorcerers, adulterers and perjurers, against those who defraud laborers of their wages, who oppress the widows and the fatherless, and deprive the foreigners among you of justice, but do not fear me,” says the Lord Almighty.
Isaiah 42:6-7 “I, the Lord, have called You in righteousness, And will hold Your hand; I will keep You and give You as a covenant to the people, As a light to the Gentiles, To open blind eyes, To bring out prisoners from the prison, Those who sit in darkness from the prison house.
God did not bless us, so that we could build bigger houses and have more things, but to meet the needs of the orphans, widows, fatherless, poor, afflicted, needy, families. So that we could help those who are bound, the foreigners, the blind (physically and spiritually), the prisoners.
He did not sanction the government and nonprofit and for profit organizations to do this, He told the Church to be his hands and feet. If the Church in Northwest Arkansas would rise and use their blessings to be obedient to the things that God told us to do, we would not need DHS and the multiple nonprofit organizations in the area because all needs would be met. As I turned my prayers towards stirring in the heart of the Church towards this, I realized that when we obey, I will need to find a new career! God let the Church arise!
Saturday, September 21, 2013
I find it interesting how you can hear something so much that you are desensitized from it, and then you hear it, as if for the first time and you are just moved by the fact. My daughter was sharing with me a conversation with her classmates. A young man came in with a bag of fast food and was eating away. Another young girl said "I work there." During the conversation that young lady made the comment that "people come in to place an order, and often times they are spending more on themselves for that meal than she makes in the day."
One would say, she is a teenager with no expenses. My daughter knew that last year, the young lady was homeless. This young student was left to fend for her self, and had taken a job to support herself. The others in class were not aware of this fact, and seemed oblivious to the issue of youth homelessness in Northwest Arkansas, which Christian quickly informed them of.
But what sunk in was "people come in to place an order, and often times they are spending more on themselves for that meal than she makes in the day." I had a similar conversation with a board member in passing, although we were discussing the United Way presentation and the breakdown of a working family making $12 and hour and the expenses that they have, which after taxes, rent, utilities, phone, transportation, and groceries there was only $51 left at the end of the month for everything else. He had been taken aback by this figure, and seemed surprised when I said most of the families we work with make less than that. I had quoted those figures, not really feeling the depths of what it meant.
But today, it sank in. How many times have I went through a drive through, and spent the money and eaten the food. The worker selling the food does not even make in a week what it costs me, for my convenience, and even the time that I and or my family would spend eating it.
Our society is quick to condone those on welfare, calling them lazy bums. Every one of the single parents that I work with is working full time or attending school, or a combination at a full time level. Yet, almost without exception, everyone of them makes under $9.00 an hour and is supporting a dependent child, some times two children. Most did not ask to be in the situation, although all got there by poor decision making.
It is time that as a society we rise up and offer a helping hand, not a hand out to those trying to improve their situation. If companies can record record breaking profits, those should be distributed to the front line workers just as much as the top level executives to help improve the life of the working poor. I mean what is a fast food company without a server, and what is a department store without a retail clerk and what is an oil company without the sale clerk at the pump.
One would say, she is a teenager with no expenses. My daughter knew that last year, the young lady was homeless. This young student was left to fend for her self, and had taken a job to support herself. The others in class were not aware of this fact, and seemed oblivious to the issue of youth homelessness in Northwest Arkansas, which Christian quickly informed them of.
But what sunk in was "people come in to place an order, and often times they are spending more on themselves for that meal than she makes in the day." I had a similar conversation with a board member in passing, although we were discussing the United Way presentation and the breakdown of a working family making $12 and hour and the expenses that they have, which after taxes, rent, utilities, phone, transportation, and groceries there was only $51 left at the end of the month for everything else. He had been taken aback by this figure, and seemed surprised when I said most of the families we work with make less than that. I had quoted those figures, not really feeling the depths of what it meant.
But today, it sank in. How many times have I went through a drive through, and spent the money and eaten the food. The worker selling the food does not even make in a week what it costs me, for my convenience, and even the time that I and or my family would spend eating it.
Our society is quick to condone those on welfare, calling them lazy bums. Every one of the single parents that I work with is working full time or attending school, or a combination at a full time level. Yet, almost without exception, everyone of them makes under $9.00 an hour and is supporting a dependent child, some times two children. Most did not ask to be in the situation, although all got there by poor decision making.
It is time that as a society we rise up and offer a helping hand, not a hand out to those trying to improve their situation. If companies can record record breaking profits, those should be distributed to the front line workers just as much as the top level executives to help improve the life of the working poor. I mean what is a fast food company without a server, and what is a department store without a retail clerk and what is an oil company without the sale clerk at the pump.
Fallen
Last night I was watching Olympus
has Fallen with my husband and I started thinking about it from a spiritual perspective.
I became overwhelmed by the picture
that played out before me. As a nation, we have allowed small compromises
to spiral out of control. We are oblivious
to the fact that we have allowed the enemy in to our inner circle, and he is
causing division. We have sat back
watching as the enemy storms our gates and we allowed them to over take our
nation.
As Christians, we have the ability to fight against the
enemy. All around us, people are dying
needlessly. We put forth some effort,
but because we have not made God our primary focus, we often end up being
destroyed and taking others down with us.
The fact is that we have the ability to defeat the enemy. It is
time that we put our primary focus back on God.
We need to pursue the enemy, take back the territory that he has stolen
and take back those he has held captive.
We must, even if we have to stand alone fight with the soul purpose of
reclaiming that which belongs to the Kingdom.
Thursday, September 12, 2013
Ministering where they are
My pastor has said “the
truth either offends or transforms you.”
It is my experience that sometimes it is in the delivery of the truth
that offense comes. When you go to
people where they are, it is the living Word ablaze in your life that ministers
to them. The Word must be planted deep
inside of you, so you can minister truth and walk as a light in darkness. I want to share two stories to illustrate why
ministering to people where they are at is so important.
I met a young man, and with
passionate anger he made my heart sad. His anger was pure and raw. Had I been
the object of his anger, I would have been fearful. Two years later his words
still ring in my ears, and tear at my heart. He told me of his plea to save the
life of a girl. He told of the heart that went empty to a church only to be
judged for her outward appearance. That one life pulled on the lives of all
around it. One person's negative
attitude, towards someone hurting and broken, destroyed her already broken
spirit and damaged the lives of others reaching out for help that day. He had
worked for some time to convince this small group that God held the answer. And
in a moment his work, and the work Christ died on the cross for, was discarded
by a judgmental attitude of a "Christian."
Had I tried to “preach” a
message to this young man, he would have shut down, and I might have been the
object of his wrath. Instead I was able
to minister to him where he was, and break through his hardened exterior and
minister God’s love.
The second is of the life of
a teenage boy that was discarded by a dysfunctional family, used by his
friends, angry at the world, and found his way into a life of illegal
activity. His heart’s desire was love
and acceptance. He started attending a
youth group and opening his heart to the fact that Christ just might love him
and accept him. God was working on him,
breaking through the hurt exterior. He
would take a few steps in the right direction, and a step back in the
wrong. As he confessed, I would tell him
you can’t keep doing that, God can forgive that, He loves you. I would try to point him to people who had
done those same things that were used mightily of God. He was not a Christian, at times he seemed to
be the devil himself, but I could see God working in him. Then in an instance, the work Christ did on
the cross, and the work the Holy Spirit had been doing in his life was
destroyed when he was told by a youth leader that God had given up
on him. He sat in my car and cried for
hours, nothing I could say would console him or convince him that she was
wrong. His life spiraled out of control
and he is now sitting in adult prison.
Had I judged the teenager for
his actions, it would have been easy to write him off. He had done some terrible things, but I know
God loves him and has a destiny for him that he couldn’t see. I know the seeds planted in his life are
still there, and I pray God sends people to him to that can continue tilling
the ground in his life.
TD Jake's once said “Whatever
makes you angry is what your called to change.”
The Church is suppose to be the hospital for hurting people, emergency,
trauma, long-term acute care - whatever is needed to heal completely. Christ
came to heal the brokenhearted; not turn them away. He came to set the captive
free; not make their burdens feel heavier. He came to lead people out of the darkness;
not push them deeper into it.
The sad truth is that most
churches no longer reach out to help those that are hurting. We are okay with
the slightly injured, but the time, energy, and love that is needed to bring
healing to lives of those hurting - most find it is easier to push them away
and judge their behaviors as not trying. We refuse to invest the time to help
those lost through the layers of pain and hurt to minister the reconciliation
and salvation Christ died to give them, but that they are too hurt to accept. Christ can work instantly in the life of a
nonbeliever, but sometimes it takes work to bring in the harvest. Here are steps to Ministering to people where
they are:
1)
You have to be on Fire yourself before you can attract people to the light or
heat of God.
You can not give something
you do not have. You have to be set
ablaze by the Holy Spirit so you can be guided and directed in word, action,
and timing as Jesus describes in John 16:13 and John 14:24. You have to immerse
yourself in the Word so that the Holy Spirit has something to draw. I know many
struggles with not being able to know the exact scripture reference, if you
need the reference God will give it. Hebrews 4:12, John 8:31-32 and Isaiah 55:11
say it is His Word that it is living,
sharper than a two edged sword, the Truth sets people free, and His
Word will not return void.
To be on fire you must stay prayed up so that you will be
sensitive to the leading of the spirit. Jesus stayed connected through prayer and it is important
that we do the same. The Holy Spirit
will always guide us of when and how to minister if we are willing to listen. Pray for wisdom, knowledge and the discerning
of spirits – God will increase these as you need them.
To
be on fire you must stay
hot. The churches in
Revelations chapter 2 and 3 were compromising, corrupt, luke-warm, and lost
their first love. God rebuked them. When you are truly ablaze for God, the World
notices. When you start to let that
flame smolder or it goes out completely, they notice more. You can not be an up and down Christian, it
damages your testimony and impacts those in your sphere of influence, and your
sphere is bigger than you think.
To
be on fire you must what God has given you.The Bible says in Col. 3:17 “And whatever you do in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus,
giving thanks to God the Father through Him.”
So we must use what God gave us to reach the lost. Like in the
parable of the talent s in Matthew 25:14-29, we have been entrusted by God with
talents, and with a commission to reach the World. If we are not using our Talents for Him, we
have buried them in the sand. We must use
what He gave us, to make more in the Kingdom.
2)
You must get close enough to the lost they can ignite.
We have talked a lot about
the flame and being set ablaze for God.
It sounds amazing, anointed and powerful. The truth is though no sane person runs to a
fire to burn. They might be drawn to it
by the heat or the light, but they have to be close enough to feel the heat or
see the light first in order to be set ablaze.
We must go to where the
people are for them to be attracted to the warmth or the light so that they can
ignite with fire.
We have to do as Jesus did and move to their need. Often times we want to minister in a way that meets our need, in a place that we feel comfortable and in a time that fits our schedule, we are a people of convenience. Jesus on the other hand went to where the people were, He didn’t drive in his air conditioned car, he walked, miles each day. He ministered first to the physical need, not just their spiritual. He ministered in a place that was not always comfortable, and was moved by compassion even when he wanted to be doing something else. You can read of few examples of this in Matthew 9:36, Matthew 14:14, Mark 1:41, Mark 6:34.
We have to do as Jesus did and move to their need. Often times we want to minister in a way that meets our need, in a place that we feel comfortable and in a time that fits our schedule, we are a people of convenience. Jesus on the other hand went to where the people were, He didn’t drive in his air conditioned car, he walked, miles each day. He ministered first to the physical need, not just their spiritual. He ministered in a place that was not always comfortable, and was moved by compassion even when he wanted to be doing something else. You can read of few examples of this in Matthew 9:36, Matthew 14:14, Mark 1:41, Mark 6:34.
When
you get close enough remember you don’t control who is ignited.
When Jesus met their need, he
showed the Light and the warmth. Jesus
was responsible for being obedient to step out and for maintaining the
intensity of His flame. That is our
responsibility also. Whether they
ignited with fire depended on the condition of the recipient’s heart and the
working of the Holy Spirit.
The 10 lepers in Luke
17:11-19 that were healed all received the same physical need being met, the
Holy Spirit was at work, and yet only one was ignited.
When
you get close enough also remember sometimes flame smolders until the condition
if right before it sets ablaze
Just like in the parable of
the sower in Matthew 13, it is our responsibility to sow the seed, to be the
light and the warmth in the dark world.
We must get close enough to let our flame touch the life of others. God will send other people along to fan the
flame, or call you to keep coming back to minister and fan the flame until it
is set ablaze.
Saul of Tarsus had been
touched by the flame. He had been
enraged by it so much that he sought to put out the flame of those he came in
contact with. It wasn't until he was on a
trip to Damascus that that flame had smoldered enough to ignite by God and his
name to Paul.
3)
There is no soul that God doesn’t want to set ablaze
Flesh compares sin, God sees
all sin as evil. Sin separates us from
God whether it is a “white lie” or the rape of a child. They are both evil in the eyes of God, and
both make us as filthy rags in his site.
●
Romans 3:23 We
need to realize that we all fell short
●
Romans 5:8 God
was patient with us and loved us while we were still sinners.
●
2 Peter 3:9 God
is not willing that any should perish
We have been called to reach
the world. Remember in Matthew 24:40 and
45 Christ said “If you have done it to the least of these you have done it unto
me, and what you fail to do for them, you fail to do it for me.” Never discount one. You might not be called to be the next Smith
Wigglesworth, Billy Graham, or even Pastor Cass Hill, but you could be the
person that is called to pour into that life that will reach millions. If you don’t use your talents to reach that
one, millions could be lost.
I don't know how God can
handle the evil that some people have went through, but I know that in my sin
state God saw me the same as he does the person that has been through things
that I can not even fathom occurring and the same as the person who did those
evil things. We need to realize that God didn't clean people up before he
accepted them. He accepted them and in that relationship people were changed.
As fishers of men, we have to stop trying to clean the fish before we catch
them. He loves them right where they
are, and we are called to do likewise.
Thursday, September 5, 2013
Keys to Success
Luke 16:10-12 He who is faithful in what is least is faithful also in much; and he who is unjust in what is least is unjust also in much. Therefore if you have not been faithful in the unrighteous mammon, who will commit to your trust the true riches? And if you have not been faithful in what is another man’s, who will give you what is your own?(NKJV)
I believe most people want a better life for yourself and
for your family. If
you want something different in life you have to be willing to do something you
have never done before.
I want to share with you three things that will help you
on your pathway to success. There are
three main areas of your life that will help you be successful, and then stay
successful. I have seen many people gain
quick success only to fizzle out because they don’t know how to maintain
it. My pastor points these three things out frequently, this is my take on it.
1) You must be disciplined in your
finances.
I know many
of you cringe at the idea of the dreaded budget. Seeing how much you make compared to what you
owe and spend can be disheartening.
However, if you don’t learn how to budget your money it will not matter how
much you make, you will always spend more.
Two things every person needs is a budget and a savings account. Until you learn to save and live by a budget
you will stay in the cycle of poverty.
You spend more than you make and you live pay check to pay check. You must learn to pay God first, then yourself and your bills
first and then learn to pay off debt and not be wasteful of your finances.
When you
feel compelled to by things that you want but don’t really need, or run through
the drive-thru for convenience, or spend a night out on the town, stop and
think about what that costs you. Ask
yourself how many hours do I have to work to pay for this. You can do this by
taking what you would spend and dividing it by how much you make. This was brought to light to me in a conversation
about a young lady who earned less in a day than the cost of bag of fast food she
just handed out to one person. What are
you working for?
2) You must be disciplined in what
belongs to another.
It is easy
to think “If it were mine, I would…” but the truth is, if you can not take care
of something that does not belong to you, you will not take care of something
that does. How you take care of things in
your possession is a direct reflection of how you will eventually take care of
your own possessions. You need to
take care of things now so you will get in the habit of doing it later.
3) You must be disciplined in the
little things.
Let’s face it;
in the scheme of life most things are little.
This is about walking in integrity (Doing the right thing even when no
one else is watching). This is about
putting your best foot forward, even when you don’t want to and even when you
think it won’t matter.
If you say
you will do something, do it. Don’t take
advantage of people – just because someone will do something, doesn’t mean its
right for you to ask them to. When you
borrow something pay it back. When you
return something, send it back in good condition. Don't take something that someone else needs,
and don't take things that do not belong to you. You need to take care of your family, but it
should not be at someone else’s expense.
How you
handle things at work is another area. How you represent yourself at work is a representation of the company. How you represent yourself out in the
community is a reflection of everything you claim to be (mother, daughter,
sister, employee, resident, Christian, friend, team member, etc.) and you never
know who is watching you, learning from you, looking up to you or where that person
will show up next in your life. How you handle yourself in front of others may
seem like a little thing, but people take notice of things that we take for
granted – and they can come back up to bite you at the least opportune
time.
These are
three small principles that if you put into practice, will lead you to
success. There will be times that you
fail, I promise. It is okay, just get
back up, apologize, and get back on track.
Life is what we make of it, and it is your choice what you make of it.
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